The law of attraction can be very frustrating for many people. After all, if the law of attraction worked, why isn’t everyone living their dream lives? Please understand this – the law of attraction is always working!! In everyone and everything. It is like gravity in that way. If things are not materializing in your life the way you would like, I hate to tell you, but it’s not a problem with the law of attraction. The problem is your understanding of it.
The main aspects that influence the law of attraction are your point of focus/attention and your dominant vibration. You attract to you what you are, how you feel. This means if you feel good, more good things will happen! Of course, this also works in reverse. The worse you feel, it seems the worse things get. This is why it is so important to learn how to control your feelings, to regain your power in life.
We must also learn how to have control over our point of focus. How often have you spent time focusing on what you don’t have? The things you lack? Wishing things could be better. This is why appreciation is so powerful. It focuses our thoughts on what we have, the abundance around us. There is always something to appreciate in life. If you feel that you lack material possessions, or freedom, try and focus on what you do have. A healthy body? Access to beautiful public parks? A loving family? A lot of these things people tend to take for granted.
In the modern world there is so much advertising and promotion of the ideal life. Unfortunately, this just reminds us of what we don’t have. If we look upon these things with envy, desperately wishing that they could be ours, this only brings about a sense of lack. Remember, the law of attraction is always working so, the more you WANT and NEED something, the more want and need you are creating! The trick is to see all the good stuff in the world with joy and appreciation. If you genuinely celebrate success and achievement in others, very soon it will be reflected back to you.
Focus on your Feelings, the rest will come.
Law of attraction teachings suggest that we should focus on what we want. I would rephrase that to be we should focus on FEELING great, feeling as if what we desire has already manifested in our lives. This is the great paradox. When you are able to feel great, be your most abundant self, amazing things will manifest in your life to match your dominant vibration BUT you will realise that you don’t need them to feel great, that is already in you.
This is what Jim Carrey meant when he said:
“I think everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of so they can see that it’s not the answer “
Most people believe that if they become rich and famous, then they would be happy. They are waiting for something external to themselves for fulfilment. The true key to happiness is learning how to control and direct your emotions, not be a slave to them. You are the most powerful being on earth! But most people live in an ego directed reality, believing that they need more and more possessions to define them and keep their standing in society. True freedom is understanding that this is not the case. You are already perfect and complete. There is nothing more that you need.
Once you understand this, your life will take on a new meaning, and you will live in a dominant vibration of joy and love. You will easily be able to manifest whatever you desire. Here is the rub – your desires will have changed! You will realise what Jim Carrey means, there is no need for fame and riches to be happy. You are an awesome cosmic being of unlimited potential. Reality is here for you as a playground to enjoy. It is time for you to stop acting small, and step into your true potential.